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Saturday, November 29, 2008

How Can I Tell What Vibes I'm Sending Out?

The Law of Attraction exists in your life right now; whether you understand it or not; whether you know it or not; and whether you like it or not.

Until you learn to use the Law of Attraction in a deliberate way, most of the time you are not aware that you are attracting into your life more of whatever you are giving your focus, attention, and energy to. This is referred to as non-deliberate attraction. It can be described in a 4-step cycle as follows:

Step 1: I observe what I'm attracting in any area of my life.

Step 2: While observing what I'm attracting, I'm offering a corresponding vibration, whether negative or positive.

Step 3: The Law of Attraction is always checking in to see what my vibration is and matches it obediently, whether wanted or unwanted.

Step 4: As the Law of Attraction responds to my vibration, I receive or manifest into my life more of what I was observing in the first place.

Then the cycle begins at Step 1 and repeats itself over and over again. Here's how the cycle may be working in your life right now:

You may notice that you keep attracting negative people and events into your life. As you notice or observe this, you are emitting or offering a corresponding vibration. The Law of Attraction responds to your vibration by matching it and giving you more of the same. In this example, more of the same simply means that you experience more negative people and events in your life.

Keep in mind the Law of Attraction is a powerful and obedient universal law. It doesn't know whether you want more of something or not; whether it is good for you or not; or whether it is wanted by you or not; it simply gives you more of the same.

If you are curious about what it is you are offering vibrationally in any area of your life, you need only look at the results you are getting in that area - it's always a perfect match. When you observe what you are attracting and you like it, celebrate, and in your celebration, you'll attract more of the same.

When you observe you are attracting something that you don't like, you can use the Law of Attraction deliberately to put a stop to it and change it into something that you DO want. The easiest way to do this is to ask yourself "So, what DO I want?" and then keep your mind focused on this new clarity of desire. Now you are becoming a deliberate offerer about what you do want and the Law of Attraction will respond accordingly. As you continue to practice this, you'll soon be able to check into this area of your life and see the NEW results you are getting.

Michael Losier, a Law of Attraction Trainer and author, supports people in understanding and practicing the Art of Deliberate Attraction, so they can have more of what they want and less of what they don't. Michael has been applying the principles of Law of Attraction for many years and enjoys a wonderful and rewarding life in the city of Victoria, BC, Canada. He facilitates a number of in-person Law of Attraction seminars as well as Teleseminars to a worldwide audience.

For more articles by Michael Losier, Teleclass information or to purchase the book, Law of Attraction, The Science of Attracting More of What You Want and Less of What You Don't,
visit www.LawOfAttractionBook.com.

Thursday, November 27, 2008

How Can 'Skeptics' Get the Proof They Need That The Law of Attraction is Working in Their Lives?

Are you one of those folks that needs to 'figure-it-out' all the time? Are you one of those Law of Attraction students who catches yourself saying things like "I wonder how this is going to come to me?" or "What do I need to figure out so I know what to do next (to manifest what I desire)?"
Attention Law of Attraction Students! Stop trying to figure out where/how/when your manifestation is going to come! It's not your job!

Here's a great tool that will help all of you 'figure-it-outers' reduce your need to figure it out.

Those of you who are thinkers need to see it or know it before you can fully accept that The Law of Attraction exists and is working in your life. You need proof before you can STOP being a skeptic. Ideally, if I could show you a test tube with Law of Attraction 'proof' inside it, or a Petri dish with Law of Attraction growing in it, that would be all the proof you'd require. The Law of Attraction does provide us with proof, however, it's not found in test tubes and Petri dishes.

One of the best tools for getting the proof you need is to begin recording personal evidence of every coincidence or every 'out of the blue' experience that happens to you. HINT: Every time you use the words or phrases: serendipity, coincidence, synchronicity, every thing is falling into place, and out of the blue---you are actually gathering your own proof that The Law of Attraction is working in YOUR life!

Folks who are thinkers and 'figure-it-outers' simply need this gathering of evidence to reduce their skepticism. Skepticism or doubt produces negative vibrations. More doubt attracts more negative vibration and as we all know, The Law of Attraction is working in every moment to match our vibration and bring us more of the same, whether wanted or unwanted. Doubt slows down the speed of the delivery of our desires. It's important to reduce that negative vibration: the less doubt or skepticism we have, the faster we manifest.

Proof does just that! Gathering proof through keeping a log and recording each personal experience of The Law of Attraction reduces doubt for the skeptic. Gathering proof replaces those negative vibrations with the positive vibrations of knowing that The Law of Attraction is indeed working for you, the thinker!

If you are a skeptic, a thinker, or a 'figure-it-outer', start your log of evidence today. By the time you have logged 7 or 8 personal experiences of The Law of Attraction working in your life, you will be well on your way to knowing through evidence and proof, that The Law of Attraction is working in YOUR life! Enjoy the relief of letting The Law of Attraction arrange, figure it all out, and bring you your desires. It is the recording of evidence and the celebrating of proof that will raise your vibration. Practice using this great tool. You'll be giving more attention to your desires, doing more allowing and speeding up the delivery of your manifestations.

Michael Losier, a Law of Attraction Trainer and author, supports people in understanding and practicing the Art of Deliberate Attraction, so they can have more of what they want and less of what they don't. Michael has been applying the principles of Law of Attraction for many years and enjoys a wonderful and rewarding life in the city of Victoria, BC, Canada. He facilitates a number of in-person Law of Attraction seminars as well as Teleseminars to a worldwide audience.

For more articles by Michael Losier, Teleclass information or to purchase the book, Law of Attraction, The Science of Attracting More of What You Want and Less of What You Don't,
visit www.LawOfAttractionBook.com

Tuesday, November 25, 2008

Had a Disastrous Date? What to Do When You Get Home

Recently I was interviewed on a Love and Relationship talk radio show. It was the first time the host had heard about the Law of Attraction and she was very interested in the concept. After explaining what the Law of Attraction was about - offering positive and negative vibes and that those vibes resulted in all of us attracting positive or negative things into our lives, she asked me the question, “What should someone do if they’ve just come home from a disastrous date?” My answer was simple, “Don’t tell anybody about it!”

When most people find themselves in that situation, they repeat and regurgitate their negative experience over and over and over again. Picking up the phone, they reminisce about how bad the date was, telling numerous people all about how they didn’t like this or that and usually going on and on about their experience in great detail. All the while, they are offering negative vibrations by giving that which they didn’t want more of their attention, energy and focus.The Law of Attraction doesn’t know whether the ‘thing’ you are giving your attention, energy or focus to, is good or bad to you, or whether you want it or don’t want it. It simply responds to the vibes you are offering by matching them and giving you more of the same!

Knowing what you didn’t like about your date is very important to applying the Law of Attraction to your life IF you use that information to help yourself become clearer about what it is you DO want on your next date. When you come home from a disastrous date, DON’T pick up the phone! Instead, build a list of what you didn’t like. For example:

· My date was late

· My date talked too much about themself

· My date was a poor listener

· My date didn’t seem interested in me

· My date was quite negative

If you continue to give these things more of your attention, energy and focus, you will certainly attract more of the same on your next date. So when you find yourself wondering why you keep attracting the same kind of dating experience or relationship over and over and over again, the answer is always the same. You are attracting a perfect match to what you are offering vibrationally.

How can you stop offering the vibration of what you don’t want? The solution is simple. Just refer to your list and ask yourself, “So, what do I want?”

What I Don’t Want

So, What Do I Want?

My date was late
I want my date to show up on time

My date talked too much about themself
I want my date to converse on a variety of subjects

My date was a poor listener
I want my date to be an attentive listener

My date didn’t seem interested in me
I want my date to be interested in me

My date was quite negative
My date felt very positive

The key point here is when you go from what you don’t want to what you do want, the words change. As your words change your vibration also changes. Now you are offering a new vibration which the Law of Attraction will respond to by sending you more of the same.

Remember - when you spend your time talking about what you don’t like; telling others about what you don’t like; journaling and remembering what you don’t like; you are spending all that time giving attention to the very things you don’t want. All the while, the Law of Attraction is responding to your vibration and matching it with more of the same.

So, if you are curious and want to know what vibes you are offering about an ideal date or ideal relationship, take a look and see what you are getting right now–-it’s always a perfect match to what you are offering vibrationally.

Next time you come home from a disastrous date take the time to notice what you did like about it and celebrate that! Then, make a list of what you didn’t like and ask yourself the question, “So, what do I want?” Use your time to give your attention, energy and focus to what you DO want, knowing that the Law of Attraction is responding to your new vibration. Get ready to notice all the ways your next date is a closer match to your list of what you DO want.

Michael Losier, a Law of Attraction Trainer and author, supports people in understanding and practicing the Art of Deliberate Attraction, so they can have more of what they want and less of what they don't. Michael has been applying the principles of Law of Attraction for many years and enjoys a wonderful and rewarding life in the city of Victoria, BC, Canada. He facilitates a number of in-person Law of Attraction seminars as well as Teleseminars to a worldwide audience.

For more articles by Michael Losier, Teleclass information or to purchase the book, Law of Attraction, The Science of Attracting More of What You Want and Less of What You Don't,
visit www.LawOfAttractionBook.com.

Sunday, November 23, 2008

Gratitude “One of the Highest Vibrations on the Vibe Meter

In my book, Law of Attraction, I use a picture of a traditional radio dial to show radio station frequency display numbers. The radio dial goes from channel 01 to channel 100 with low vibrations being 01 to 50 and the higher vibrations are located on the dial at 50 to 100.

Understanding that Law of Attraction always responds to the vibrations that we are sending, ideally, we would want to be sending high vibrations. Appreciation and Gratitude are some of the highest vibrations that we can send. You can tell by how you feel when you are being grateful and experiencing gratitude. Side note: Olivia Newton John has a recent album called Grace and Gratitude – and I love it. Check it out here:

There are many ways for you to express your gratitude. Know that, by doing so, you will be deliberately sending out one of the highest vibrations.

Want a tool to help you practice your gratitude? Check out what my friends Matthew and Brad have created as their tool for being grateful – The Gratitude Dance .

Michael Losier, a Law of Attraction Trainer and author, supports people in understanding and practicing the Art of Deliberate Attraction, so they can have more of what they want and less of what they don't. Michael has been applying the principles of Law of Attraction for many years and enjoys a wonderful and rewarding life in the city of Victoria, BC, Canada. He facilitates a number of in-person Law of Attraction seminars as well as Teleseminars to a worldwide audience.

For more articles by Michael Losier, Teleclass information or to purchase the book, Law of Attraction, The Science of Attracting More of What You Want and Less of What You Don't,
visit www.LawOfAttractionBook.com.

Friday, November 21, 2008

Goal Setting Sets the Energy in Motion – Launching Law of Attraction

Traditionally, January tends to be a time for goal setting. However, many of you have learned that with Law of Attraction you can have goals and desires ALL year long -- waiting until New Year's to set goals is so seventies!

The 'deciding-what-you-desire' part of goal setting is the most important. You have to think about what you DO want and then articulate it, making sure you are clear about what you want. You now have your goals! All of that attention, energy and focus on your desire launches Law of Attraction by setting the energy in motion. Giving attention to anything ALWAYS sets the energy in motion (Law of Attraction).

· Goal setting sets the energy in motion.

· Deciding you desire something sets the energy in motion.·

· Daydreaming about your goals and desires sets the energy in motion.·

· Writing your goals on a ‘yellow-sticky note’ sets the energy in motion.·

· Telling others about your goals and dreams sets the energy in motion.

The point I want to emphasize is that we are good at setting the energy in motion. Can you feel the emotion when you say, "I've decided"? Deciding sets the energy in motion yet many people never say it. The challenge in goal setting is that, not only are you asked to state your goal, you are asked when it is that you want it. Here is an example: Setting the Energy in Motion in Your LifeGoal: To have ten new clients by the end of this month. (Your goal is clear, measurable and specific.) Challenge: Mid-month comes around and you've only attracted three new clients.

Towards the end of the month, you start noticing that you are "not there' yet. Now a bit of panic or doubt (both negative vibrations) kicks it. You may start telling yourself, "I've only got three clients and I wanted ten." In your observation of NOT having the full ten, you send out a negative vibration of NOT having what you want. Keeping score of what you have NOT attracted maintains a negative vibration towards your goal. Disappointment sets in.

Solution: Continue to set the energy of your goals in motion. Be deliberate about what you are paying attention to. Continue to pay attention to what you HAVE attracted so far— reminding yourself that LOTS can happen before the end of the month. In other words, celebrate and acknowledge what HAS happened. By practicing gratitude for all that has happened so far, you will be resetting your vibration to the way you want things to be and as always, Law of Attraction responds and matches your vibration.

Michael Losier, a Law of Attraction Trainer and author, supports people in understanding and practicing Deliberate Attraction by providing them with tools and strategies so they can have more of what they want and less of what they don't. Michael, the Law of Attraction “how-to guy” has been applying the principles of Law of Attraction for many years and enjoys a wonderful and rewarding life in the city of Victoria, BC, Canada. He facilitates a number of in-person Law of Attraction seminars a worldwide audience. His best selling book has been translated into 23 languages and is being enjoyed by people world wide. Michael provides free resources each month in his ezine.

Visit www.LawOfAttractionBook.com to subscribe to his ezine, check out more articles and listen to recorded interviews on Law of Attraction.

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Goal Setting, What Impact Does Applying a Date/Amount Have With Regards to Law of Attraction

Given that so many of us are goal setters, this article is in response to the volume of questions I get about this topic - Goal Setting and Law of Attraction.

Traditional goal setting asks that you include in your goal, specific dates, times, and amounts. For example, a salesperson may say their goal is to have $5,000 in sales by December 31, 2006. Remembering the Law of Attraction is always responding to your vibrations, what vibration would you send if this were your goal? Keep in mind that the Law of Attraction responds to what you say and what you think.

How do the following two lists help or hinder obtaining your goal results? What vibes may some people be sending when using a traditional goal statement “To earn $5,000 in sales by December 31, 2006”?

Here's what I like about goal setting: a) Setting the goal sets the energy in motion.b) Setting goals helps you get clearer about what you want.c) Setting and having goals causes you to give deliberate attention to your desire.

Here's when it may hinder your results:a) Focusing on where you're 'not' instead of where you're 'at'.b) Anxiety as you are observe that you're "not there yet".c) Keeping score by saying "I only have 4 days left".d) Can you see and understand how this list may help or hinder your results?
Here’s my suggestion for incorporating Law of Attraction into goal setting:Say “I’m in the process of continuously attracting and allowing all that I need to do, know, or have, to earn an abundance in sales.”

The word abundance means different things to different people. For some people, 10 might be an abundant amount while for others the number 80 may be abundant.
Abundance is a feeling, so by saying that you have an “abundance of...” you know that means that there are plenty, or there are more than you're used to. It means ‘lots’ to you without having to put a specific number on your goal.

As you observe that you are attracting ANYTHING that's in alignment to your goal, than celebrate it! And, in the celebration you'll be sending out a positive vibration that Law of Attraction will respond to.

In short, while observing the positive things that are happening, you'll create more of the same ... it's all about vibes.

Michael Losier, a Law of Attraction Trainer and author, supports people in understanding and practicing the Art of Deliberate Attraction, so they can have more of what they want and less of what they don't. Michael has been applying the principles of Law of Attraction for many years and enjoys a wonderful and rewarding life in the city of Victoria, BC, Canada. He facilitates a number of in-person Law of Attraction seminars as well as Teleseminars to a worldwide audience.

For more articles by Michael Losier, Teleclass information or to purchase the book, Law of Attraction, The Science of Attracting More of What You Want and Less of What You Don't,
visit www.LawOfAttractionBook.com.

Monday, November 17, 2008

Does Using the Word ˜Want" Contradict the Law of Attraction?

If you’re familiar with my work you’ll often hear me use the phrase “So, what do you want?” In my book and other articles, I often refer to wanting to attract something. In short I use the word ‘want’.

A number of people have been trained not to use the word ‘want.’ They have been told that when you use the word ‘want’ you’re actually holding the vibration of not having ‘it’. Or when you use the word ‘want’ you’re coming from a place of lack.

For example, the word homework excites some people yet causes a negative vibration in others. Words can feel negative to one person and feel positive to another.

To illustrate my point, read the next two scenarios and after each one decide whether you are sending a negative vibration or a positive vibration.Note that the words are exactly the same.

Scenario # 1 – You notice something that you desire but in your head you catch yourself thinking, “I’ll never get one as it’s out of my reach.” Then you say “I want one of those”, in a whiny voice. (What vibrations would you be sending here?)

Scenario # 2 – You desire something new and you see it. With your eyes wide open and acting like an excited kid you say “I want one of those!” pointing at the exact item that matches your desire. (What vibrations would you be sending here?)

Remembering that Law of Attraction is responding to vibrations (your feelings), it’s how you feel about the words you say which is most important.

It’s not the words you use,it’s how you feel about the words that you use.

So the next time somebody tells you not to use the word ‘want’ you can teach them why using the word ‘want’ is okay for you.

Michael Losier, a Law of Attraction Trainer and author, supports people in understanding and practicing the Art of Deliberate Attraction, so they can have more of what they want and less of what they don't. Michael has been applying the principles of Law of Attraction for many years and enjoys a wonderful and rewarding life in the city of Victoria, BC, Canada. He facilitates a number of in-person Law of Attraction seminars as well as Teleseminars to a worldwide audience.

For more articles by Michael Losier, Teleclass information or to purchase the book, Law of Attraction, The Science of Attracting More of What You Want and Less of What You Don't,
visit www.LawOfAttractionBook.com.

Saturday, November 15, 2008

Do I Need to Visualize to Manifest my Desires?

You've heard me talk in previous articles about Deliberate Attraction. The Law of Attraction is a powerful force that is operating in every moment, including this moment right now. Knowing that we all offer a vibration (vibe), in every moment, and that The Law of Attraction matches that vibration and brings us more of the same vibration (whether wanted, or unwanted), it is important for us to understand the significance of becoming deliberate about what it is that we are vibrationally offering. The more we learn to apply The Law of Attraction to our lives and tap into this powerful force, the more deliberate we learn to become as attractors. This speeds up the manifestation of our desires. And that brings us to the topic of this article. Is visualization needed to manifest our desires?

Let's begin by reviewing the 3-step formula for Deliberate Attraction:

1) I identify my desire (being as clear as I can).

2) I raise my vibration (by giving my desire attention).

3) I allow (by reducing my resistance to receiving my desire).

Often, people will tell me they have already identified their desires and typically made a huge list of what those desires are. I am frequently asked "Michael, how come the Law of Attraction didn't manifest my desire?" When I ask them where that list is right now, the two answers I usually get are "Oh, I don't have it anymore." and "It's tucked away somewhere."

It is important to remember that The Law of Attraction is a 3-step process and not a 1-step process. The Law of Attraction states "Whatever I give my attention, energy and focus to, I'll attract more of it, whether wanted or unwanted." After we have determined our desires, we need to give attention to those desires. This is why most people who build a list and then tuck it away, never see the desires on that list manifest.

I like to teach the deliberate use of The Law of Attraction through words because words are a common denominator that we all share. We speak, hum, sing, read, write, paint and process words in every moment of our day. All words carry a vibration for the person who says them or thinks them. There are, however, different ways to give attention to your desires. Some people like to use words through writing or talking with others about their desires. Other people like to visualize or use art forms like making collages. It is true that all of these ways will give attention to your desires and help to raise your vibration. However, it is also true that not all of these methods or tools will feel good to everyone using them. So, how do YOU determine if a method is the right one for you to use? It's easy.

If it feels good, then use it. If it doesn't, then don't!

That's all there is to it. To insist that someone needs to visualize in order to manifest their desires when visualizing is a frustrating endeavor for that person, is opposing the purpose of using the tool in the first place! While that person is visualizing, their frustration would be creating a negative vibration instead of increasing their positive vibration even higher. The same goes for any of the methods or tools I've suggested in practicing the Law of Attraction. Use them only if they feel good to you.

To summarize, ask yourself this question when checking to see if visualization or any other method or tool is right for you. "Do I feel good as I am using this method or tool?" "Is this method or tool helping me to offer a positive vibration?" If the answer is yes then be assured that it is an effective tool for you to keep on using as you continue to manifest your desires.

Michael Losier, a Law of Attraction Trainer and author, supports people in understanding and practicing the Art of Deliberate Attraction, so they can have more of what they want and less of what they don't. Michael has been applying the principles of Law of Attraction for many years and enjoys a wonderful and rewarding life in the city of Victoria, BC, Canada. He facilitates a number of in-person Law of Attraction seminars as well as Teleseminars to a worldwide audience.

For more articles by Michael Losier, Teleclass information or to purchase the book, Law of Attraction, The Science of Attracting More of What You Want and Less of What You Don't,
visit www.LawOfAttractionBook.com.

Thursday, November 13, 2008

Clarity Through Contrast...Really!

Discover Clarity through Contrast

Clarity of your desires is one of the most important steps in manifesting what you want. For some this process may be difficult or frustrating. For others, the process of getting clear about their vision comes easily. Here is a tool that will assist you with this process and support you in getting clear about what it is you desire.

The most helpful concept that I have discovered for myself over the last few years has been the concept spoken by Abraham-Hicks. This message teaches us to embrace contrast - a concept that took some time for me to understand. Clarity through contrast? You bet. How is it we can know what we do want without experiencing what we do not want (contrast)? It is through contrast that we experience what we don't want. Contrast is essential in supporting us to make a decision.

Bring to mind contrast that you may be experiencing in your life right now. Notice how easy it is to identify what it is you don't want. That's contrast. Using this contrast, formulate your thoughts to see what it is you do want.

As I experience contrast in my life, I have learned that when I use it to get clear about what it is I do want, the contrast begins to turn to desire and it feels better. When I don't use the contrast to help me get clear, the contrast becomes resistance. After spending some time getting clear about what you do want, I suggest you prepare a Desire Statement. A Desire Statement is just that -- a statement about your desire. It may be helpful to use phrases in your Desire Statement such as "I'm in the process" or "I love knowing..." etc..

Things will flow much easier to you once you are clear about what you want. Remember, the Universe delivers to you what you give your attention and energy to, not necessarily what you want.

If you do these simple exercises, you will undoubtedly experience the powerful Universal Law of Attraction. Having your desires clear and articulate will result in a smooth, quick manifestation. Decide today that you are willing to see contrast as a tool and use it to birth clarity in all your desires.

Michael Losier, a Law of Attraction Trainer and author, supports people in understanding and practicing the Art of Deliberate Attraction, so they can have more of what they want and less of what they don't. Michael has been applying the principles of Law of Attraction for many years and enjoys a wonderful and rewarding life in the city of Victoria, BC, Canada. He facilitates a number of in-person Law of Attraction seminars as well as Teleseminars to a worldwide audience.

For more articles by Michael Losier, Teleclass information or to purchase the book, Law of Attraction, The Science of Attracting More of What You Want and Less of What You Don't,
visit www.LawOfAttractionBook.com.

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

Cancel Cancel

How Giving Attention to What You Don't Want Brings More of It

Have you heard yourself or others say 'cancel cancel' after catching that a negative declarative statement was made, usually about something unwanted? Saying 'cancel cancel' is actually giving it more attention. Saying 'cancel cancel' keeps the thought alive and fuels it, like blowing on the embers of a fire to start small flames.

Law of Attraction can be defined as ..."The Law of Attraction responds to whatever you give your attention and energy to, whether wanted or unwanted." So, in the moment you observe yourself declaring something you don't want, simply ask yourself "So, what do I want?", and make that your new declarative statement. It may feel awkward at first, but you'll love the rewards! Next time you catch yourself saying 'cancel cancel' simply replace it with your new thought when you ask yourself, "So, what do I want?" Have fun with this!

Michael Losier, a Law of Attraction Trainer and author, supports people in understanding and practicing the Art of Deliberate Attraction, so they can have more of what they want and less of what they don't. Michael has been applying the principles of Law of Attraction for many years and enjoys a wonderful and rewarding life in the city of Victoria, BC, Canada. He facilitates a number of in-person Law of Attraction seminars as well as Teleseminars to a worldwide audience.

For more articles by Michael Losier, Teleclass information or to purchase the book, Law of Attraction, The Science of Attracting More of What You Want and Less of What You Don't,
visit www.LawOfAttractionBook.com.

Sunday, November 9, 2008

Can I Use Law of Attraction to Improve an Existing Relationship?

Like many people, you may have an existing relationship in your life that doesn’t feel good for you? Do you catch yourself saying, “They bring me down,” or maybe you resist taking a telephone call from a certain person? Is there someone you avoid at your workplace? What about at home? Is there negativity between you and your children or your spouse?


Yes, you can improve any relationship using the Law of Attraction and here’s why. If you are attracting it (negative aspects of a relationship) then you’ve been sending out a vibration that matched it. You may be thinking, “I didn’t put it out there that I wanted negativity between my spouse and I or that I have to work with a rude boss every day!” Well, actually you did even without knowing it! Remember, the Law of Attraction is working all the time. It’s matching the vibration you are sending whether it is negative or positive or whether you like it or don’t like it.

If you are getting negative relationships you are giving off a matching vibration – that’s the rule of Law of Attraction.

The question you may have is, “What was I doing that caused me to attract this into my current relationship?”

Observing anything causes you to send a matching vibration of what you were observing. If you are watching something -- you are sending out the vibration that matches your observation. If you are listening to something, perhaps a negative conversation, the same thing occurs; you emit a matching vibration.

In your observation of what you don’t want, you are giving it your attention, energy and focus.

The Law of Attraction doesn’t know whether you want it or don’t want it or whether it’s good for you or bad for you. It simply does its job! It matches your vibration and sends you more of the same.

3 Tips on How to Reset Your Vibe With an Existing Relationship

Tip #1. Deliberately Spend More Time Observing What You DO Like.

For instance, maybe your mate is a good listener. Maybe you are taken out to dinner once a week. Find things that you resonate with and deliberately spend more time focusing on them and celebrating them.

Tip #2. When You See What You Don’t Like, Shift Your Focus.

If your spouse or partner takes the garbage out faithfully but leaves clothes all over the bedroom, observe them taking the garbage out. If your child does a great job of loading up the dishwasher, focus on that instead of their messy bedroom. In other words, when you catch yourself observing what you don’t like, reset your focus by asking yourself, How would I like this to be? Example: You observe that your partner never takes interest in your projects or your work. When you catch yourself focusing on those thoughts ask the question, How would I like it to be? Spend a moment thinking about your ideal match with your partner. Reset your thoughts with these sorts of words; “My ideal partner loves to hear about my success projects."

If you are observing your spouse complaining about the same things over and over again, you would reset your thoughts and say something like; ”I love when my spouse is positive and uplifting."

Tip #3. Spend Time Remembering the Positive Way It Was.

Give more attention, energy and focus to the way it was…remembering special moments together. It could be a nice holiday you had together or simply sharing foot massages last week.

You are including the vibration of the way you would like it to be! Remember, Law of Attraction doesn't know if you are pretending, day dreaming, imagining or writing in your journal. It simply matches your vibration and sends you more of the same.

Decide to become more deliberate in what you observe and focus on. If you are someone who is thinking this won’t help MY relationship, just give it a try and you’ll soon be celebrating the positive changes in all your relationships! Your results are a direct reflection of the vibration you are sending.

Friday, November 7, 2008

Believing is the Absence of Doubt

Ha! You've heard the expression "Just believe it and it will come." Well, technically, that is true. However, 'believing' is not just thinking that you can have it; it is also feeling that it is possible.

When we believe that we can "have it," that means we have no doubt in receiving it.

In the formula for Deliberate Attraction:

(1) Identify Desire

(2) Raise the Vibration (feeling)

(3) Allow it

The allowing of your desire can come to you very quickly providing you have no resistance to receiving it.

Resistance = Doubt

When you remove the 'doubt' that you can have what you want, you are allowing and that is how it can come to you.

Tools for allowing:

There are a number of tools, techniques and strategies that can help you remove the doubt (resistance). Here is one that I like best.

Ask yourself this question:

"Is there anyone on the planet doing or having what you desire?"

For example, if your desire is to attract your ideal client, or your ideal relationship, then you could ask yourself "Is there anyone on the planet who has attracted their ideal client?"

Yes! There are millions of people on the planet who have attracted their ideal clients.
NOW THIS FEELS POSSIBLE!

And when it feels possible, you have removed doubt.

And when you remove the doubt, the universal Law of Attraction can bring your desires to you.

When using the formula for Deliberate Attraction, spend most of your time "Allowing," as it determines how quickly, or slowly, your desires will come to you.

Michael Losier, a Law of Attraction Trainer and author, supports people in understanding and practicing the Art of Deliberate Attraction, so they can have more of what they want and less of what they don't. Michael has been applying the principles of Law of Attraction for many years and enjoys a wonderful and rewarding life in the city of Victoria, BC, Canada. He facilitates a number of in-person Law of Attraction seminars as well as Teleseminars to a worldwide audience.

For more articles by Michael Losier, Teleclass information or to purchase the book, Law of Attraction, The Science of Attracting More of What You Want and Less of What You Don't,
visit www.LawOfAttractionBook.com.

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

Are you Using These Common Misunderstood Phrases?

In short, Law of Attraction is all about vibes. Vibes are simply vibrations. Vibes are moods and feelings. The vibes that you send (generated from your moods and feelings), are either negative vibes or positive vibes which Law of Attraction is always responding to by matching and giving you more of the same. So everything you’re attracting is a result of the vibrations that you are sending. In short, what you’re getting is what you’re vibrating.

Here are a couple of common phrases that are used that I’m suggesting we revisit, given what we understand about Law of Attraction. Are these phrases true?
· “It was meant to be”
· “The Universe is teaching me a lesson”

“It was meant to be”.

Often I’ll hear people use this expression when something shows up differently than the way they wanted it to be. People will say “I mustn’t have been meant to have it”, or “It wasn’t meant to be”. I believe the reason is it wasn’t a match to your vibration. Remember Law of Attraction doesn’t know whether it was meant to be; whether you should or shouldn’t have it; whether it’s good for you or not; or whether it was helpful or not. So instead of saying it wasn’t meant to be we could really say “I haven’t yet lined up my energy”.

“The Universe is teaching me a lesson”.

I would say the Universe is not in the business of teaching lessons or presenting things in your life to teach you a lesson. The Universe (Law of Attraction), only has one job and that is to match vibrations. So if you’ve attracted “it” then you must have vibrated it. Again, you didn’t get it to teach you a lesson; you got it because that’s the vibration you were sending.
Here are a couple of other phrases for you to ponder about.

“It showed up three times I must be meant to have it”. “That’s what the Universe wanted me to have”. “It’s in God’s hands”. “I attracted it to teach me a lesson”.

Some things for you to ponder.

Michael Losier, a Law of Attraction Trainer and author, supports people in understanding and practicing the Art of Deliberate Attraction, so they can have more of what they want and less of what they don't. Michael has been applying the principles of Law of Attraction for many years and enjoys a wonderful and rewarding life in the city of Victoria, BC, Canada. He facilitates a number of in-person Law of Attraction seminars as well as Teleseminars to a worldwide audience.

For more articles by Michael Losier, Teleclass information or to purchase the book, Law of Attraction, The Science of Attracting More of What You Want and Less of What You Don't,
visit www.LawOfAttractionBook.com.

Monday, November 3, 2008

Abundance is a Feeling

This question and answer interview was done by Kathy Smith, one of Michael’s loyal Virtual Assistants. Visit her website.

Q: Michael, many times during your teleclasses and seminars, you say “abundance is a feeling.” Can you elaborate on that statement – what do you mean it’s a feeling?

First one of the important things that we’ve come to learn with the Law of Attraction is that we can duplicate feelings. In other words, just through the words I use I can stimulate somebody or discourage them. In short, we can create feelings within ourselves and within others by what we say and what we think.

Abundance is a feeling. Do you ever notice how excited you feel when you know you have a check coming or when you know you’re getting an income tax refund? The excitement you’re experiencing is the feeling of abundance. We feel abundant knowing that it’s coming, even before we put it in the bank. So a question to ask is, “Do I feel abundant knowing that I’m receiving some money or do I feel abundant only when I put it in my bank account?” For most people, they feel abundant knowing that it’s coming. It has nothing to do with whether that have it or not.

So because abundance is a feeling, and the Law of Attraction responds to feelings (vibrations), what if we were able to duplicate the vibration of abundance deliberately? (This is what’s called Deliberate Attraction). We’ve come to understand that this powerful force called the Law of Attraction is constantly checking to find a vibration that we’re sending and duplicates it by giving us more of the same. So what if when the Law of Attraction is checking at every moment, that in that moment, we are offering the vibration of abundance? Given the formula, the Law of Attraction would duplicate that vibration and bring us more of the same. That’s why it’s called the Law.

Q: How do you teach people to attract more abundance?

The Law of Attraction does not care why you are offering a vibration. In other words, it does not care whether you are remembering, pretending, complaining, creating, day-dreaming or observing your reality. It obediently duplicates that vibration. So ideally, we would find something that makes us feel abundant and include it more often in our daily vibration. There are a number of tools that people can use to duplicate the vibration of abundance. I’ll give you one of them today.

Q: How do you record abundance in your own life?

On my fridge, I have 15 – 2 dollar winning lottery tickets. So I can clearly and truthfully say I won the lottery 15 times last month. I’m a winner. Look how many times I’ve won! It’s worth 30 dollars to me in the bank and it’s worth much more to me vibrationally.

You know when people buy those lottery scratch tickets? Most would celebrate the win for 21 seconds. So for 21 seconds, you are offering the vibration of abundance by saying things like, “Hey I just won 2 dollars! I love it when I win scractch tickets!” And after the short offering of abundance vibration, most people cash the ticket in again and again until they lose. And now they catch themselves saying, “I just wasted money on this lottery again. I only ever win 2 dollars. Easy come, easy go.” Now they’re in a place of offering a negative vibration.

So here’s how to take advantage of the 2 dollar winning lottery ticket. Don’t cash it. Keep it in your wallet. Put it on your fridge. And as you look at it each time, it will be a brief reminder that you won 2 dollars. Now you can tell yourself, I won the lottery! I won money this week! And now, for more than 21 seconds, you are offering the vibration of abundance over and over and over again. Your 2 dollar winning lottery ticket is worth more to you vibrationally than the 2 dollars.

Michael Losier, a Law of Attraction Trainer and author, supports people in understanding and practicing the Art of Deliberate Attraction, so they can have more of what they want and less of what they don't. Michael has been applying the principles of Law of Attraction for many years and enjoys a wonderful and rewarding life in the city of Victoria, BC, Canada. He facilitates a number of in-person Law of Attraction seminars as well as Teleseminars to a worldwide audience.

For more articles by Michael Losier, Teleclass information or to purchase the book, Law of Attraction, The Science of Attracting More of What You Want and Less of What You Don't,
visit www.LawOfAttractionBook.com.

Saturday, November 1, 2008

A Minute of Deliberate Attraction is better than None

Before I explain why a minute of Deliberate Attraction is better than none, I'd like to begin by giving a definition of The Law of Attraction.

Definition of the Law of Attraction: I attract to myself, whatever I give my focus, attention, or energy to, whether wanted or unwanted.

It is important to understand that The Law of Attraction operates in every moment. Right now, in this very moment, each of us is offering a vibration, and The Law of Attraction is matching that vibration and giving us more of it, whether or not we are offering that vibration deliberately or non-deliberately. As the definition says, whether wanted or unwanted, we attract more of whatever vibration we offer in every moment. When it comes to our vibration, whether or not they are deliberately offered, or non-deliberately offered and whether or not our vibration attracts to us something we want or don't want, The Law of Attraction is still paying attention and operating in exactly the same way---in EVERY moment.


Ideally, we will want to become more deliberate offerers about the vibrations we offer. When we become deliberate about what we give our focus, attention, and energy to, we are practicing Deliberate Attraction! Here is an easy 4-stage cycle to help you understand why Deliberate Attraction is an important skill to practice.

Stage #1: You observe what you are attracting in any moment of your life.

Stage #2: While observing what you are attracting, you are offering a corresponding vibration.

Stage #3: Whether offered deliberately or non-deliberately, in every moment The Law of
Attraction is checking in with your vibration.

Stage #4: The Law of Attraction then gives you more of whatever you are offering vibrationally.

This 4-stage cycle keeps repeating itself over, and over and over again. This is how you manifest more of whatever you give your focus, attention, or energy to.

Notice the word 'attention' in our definition of The Law of Attraction. The more Deliberate Attention you give to something you desire, the more quickly it will manifest in your life.

Imagine spending one minute deliberately placing your focus, attention, and energy on the way you want something to be in your life. You are filling that minute with deliberately offered vibrations. Your vibrations are summoning the energy of The Law of Attraction to start unfolding whatever you just gave your attention to.

Now that you understand more clearly the significance of being a deliberate offerer of your vibration, isn't one minute of deliberate attraction better than none? Remember, whenever you give attention to what you Do want, you are including it in your current vibration. And, whenever you give attention to what you DON'T want, you are including it in your current vibration. The Law of Attraction doesn't make any distinctions between the two.

In closing, in every moment, including this moment RIGHT NOW, RIGHT NOW, RIGHT NOW, you are including both what you want and don't want in your vibration. Practice becoming more deliberate in your vibration and you will manifest your desires more quickly. That's what Deliberate Attraction is all about.

Michael Losier, a Law of Attraction Trainer and author, supports people in understanding and practicing the Art of Deliberate Attraction, so they can have more of what they want and less of what they don't. Michael has been applying the principles of Law of Attraction for many years and enjoys a wonderful and rewarding life in the city of Victoria, BC, Canada. He facilitates a number of in-person Law of Attraction seminars as well as Teleseminars to a worldwide audience.

For more articles by Michael Losier, Teleclass information or to purchase the book, Law of Attraction, The Science of Attracting More of What You Want and Less of What You Don't,
visit www.LawOfAttractionBook.com.

The Law of Attraction

I recently borrowed a book on the Law of Atrraction by Micheal Losier from my brother and found it to be a very good read. In the following blog posts I am going to be posting articles by Michael that I found wonderful reads, at the end of each blog there is a link to visit his site if you are interested.

I hope that these next blogs will be of some help to many of you...